How To Give a Good Blowjob
The Best Blowjob Guide I’ve Found
January 31st, 2012 | Fi
Ok, so I’ve been getting a LOT of requests for more blowjob tips, and I was going to write up another post, when I got turned on this guide…
In it you learn how to “give him an earth-shattering blow job” – the kind which not only leaves him completely and utterly satisfied… but will also make you the MOST memorable woman he’s ever had the pleasure of being with.
Let’s face it, if you get this right, there’s no way he’s letting you go – in fact, you’ll probably end up getting exactly what YOU want… if that interests you at all 
What I really love is that you get step-by-step instructions on how to BLOW HIS MIND… so it’s like you’ll have your own personal blowjob coach (why not?!)
Imagine the look on his face when you go from being the good girl he knows… to the wild woman who can rock his world – the woman he fantasizes about!
How amazing would it be to see him utterly stunned and smitten with you?
And you know the best part, when you please him… he’ll go out of his way to please you even more.
Get the guide here and blow his mind!
Blowjobs & Swallowing!
August 16th, 2011 | Fi
Some do, some don’t the choice is yours. If you really don’t want to swallow then don’t. I am sure that your man would not want you to feel like you are being forced to do something that is not enjoyable for you.
Men do like it when you swallow, I have never really understood what the big deal is but then again this is probably because I am not a guy. I have asked but have never really been given a proper reply “it’s just good” is what my man has told me.
There is a difference to him though in the fact that if you stop what you are doing just when he is about to come then it changes the feeling. I suppose it’s the same as when he goes down on you and you are right on the edge of an orgasm but he then stops or moves his tongue to a different spot. Sorry I digress from the subject in hand…ahem.. although whilst I am here on this subject I find the more you give a blowjob to your man the more he will reciprocate – this is a good enough reason to give a good blowjob in my book.
If you don’t want him to come in your mouth at all then one of the techniques I like to use is: just before he is about to come I remove his cock from my mouth and lick up and down on the area between his head and shaft (the frenulum) with quite firm pressure and quite quickly. I also use my hand on his shaft to go up and down rhythmically in time with my tongue. This is just one of the ways I do it that my man likes but as everyone is different do experiment until you find a technique that has him feeling like it will tip him over the edge.
If you are not letting him come in your mouth then be aware of your position. Once I did get spurt up my nose when he came – this led to me being much more aware of how I angle myself so I can continue to give him pleasure, look him in the eyes yet be out of the spurt range…
The main reasons people don’t like to swallow:
- Taste
- Texture
Taste
The taste can be slightly affected by what your man eats, the basic taste will be the same but for example if he drinks pineapple juice then this can make it taste a bit more sweet. This will only change his taste if he drink/eats fruits on a regular basis (just drinking a glass of pineapple juice 10mins before a blowjob will not make a difference). Just as some foods can make the taste sweeter other foods can make it taste more bitter or saltier, some of these are coffee, garlic, onions, asparagus (and asparagus is meant to be an aphrodisiac!!).
Texture
This can vary as it too can be affected by what your man eats/drinks. If he drinks a lot of water this can thin it out. If he has cum already within a few hours then the second time there may be less and the texture may be thinner.
Sometimes the thought of swallowing can be psychological – if you are constantly thinking it is going to taste bad or be thick and gloopy then yes this will put you off of swallowing but if you push those thoughts out of your mind and think more peasant thoughts you may well find that it doesn’t actually taste/feel bad at all.
I do recommend you try a couple of times before saying ‘nope never again’, and even then I don’t think you should rule it out forever.
Next up… well you shall just have to wait and find out.
Step By Step to a good blowjob
August 15th, 2011 | Fi
Ok now where were we… right so you have your man all hot and steamy and wanting more. Now blowjobs aren’t just about sucking his cock, well they are but there are different ways of doing it.
I like to alternate between sucking and licking. Teeth are important.. not using them but covering them with your lips and just generally keeping them out of the way, you do not want to bite him… if there are any men reading this then I am sure they will all agree that teeth are a no no.
When you do have him in your mouth completely and sucking up and down his shaft you can also hold on to his shaft at the lower end with a firm (not too firm) grip as I like to move my hand up and down at the same time varying the feeling of pressure, I hope this is making sense. I also find holding it this way makes it easier to control my movements when I am just licking his shaft up and down or playing with the tip with my tongue when his cock isn’t in my mouth. Again there is no definitive way to do it, this is just one way of how to give a blowjob. I recommend experimenting to find out what he enjoys and what you also enjoy doing.
Whilst his cock is in your mouth you can play with the head of his penis using your tongue and varying the pressure of your tongue. There are certain areas that my man likes to have firm tongue pressure when I am licking him, this is where experimenting on your man comes into its own as different people like different things and different areas have different sensitivities (wasn’t sure if that was a word but spellcheck seems to think it’s OK).
Balls – do play with them but they are sensitive so just be gentle. If you want you can even take them into your mouth and give them a gentle suck.
If you want to tease him a little then move away from the cock, give him a kiss and then move back down slowly, lick around the area and near his cock but not his cock, blow air onto the tip and give it a gentle lick and move away again, this is guaranteed to make him want more.. remember to look him in the eyes men love to watch what’s happening when you are giving a blowjob.
Now remember earlier I mentioned hot and cold drinks, well if you want to intensify the feeling for him then just take a sip of one or the other and straight after take him into your mouth, if you want you can even alternate between the two giving him different sensations.
Next post coming soon and I will talk a bit about swallowing or not swallowing as the case may be..
Give a good blowjob – Tip 1: Getting started
August 14th, 2011 | Fi
Make it enjoyable for you and him, obviously you want him to enjoy it but I know not everyone jumps for joy at the thought of giving a blowjob (for those of you who think this way hopefully this blog will change that). One thing to remember is to look into his eyes when giving him a blowjob because this will really turn him on.
I recommend using a flavoured lube this helps to keep things running smoothly… and it gets him nice and hard while you are rubbing it on, but if you don’t use lube then that’s good too just make sure your lips and tongue are wet, very wet as things can dry out quite quickly (that’s when having a hot or cold drink nearby can be handy – more on that in another post).
There are many different ways to give a blowjob and I don’t always use the same one, it’s good to mix it up and try new things as well. The following is just one of the ways that I get started.
I like to start with kissing then gradually working my way down his body with small kisses and licks. I take my time getting down to his cock as find this is a good way for building up his anticipation. As I get down to his cock I lick the tip and then the shaft from the base back up to the tip, then making my mouth quite small I will put it over the tip of his cock and push down putting enough pressure so that to him it feels like he is entering a small tight space (what guy doesn’t love that feeling). I then stop and go back to licking and swirling my tongue around his tip whilst holding his penis with one hand and playing with his balls with the other. I like to take my time licking his cock and building his pleasure, before taking him into my mouth again.
Right that’s the start of things taken care of now for the next post… coming soon (no pun intended).